Dear Aunty Lisa,
I am writing to you because I am in a dilemma. I recently saw my neighbour’s wife at a lodge with another mɑn. The two of them looked very c0zy and I am convinced they were hɑving an ɑffɑir. I am now wondering if I should tell her husbɑnd about what I saw.
On one hand, I feel like he deserves to know the truth and that it is the right thing to do. On the other hand, I am worried about the consequences of my actions. I don’t want to be the one to break up a family or cause any harm to anyone.
What should I do? Should I tell her husband or should I stay quiet and mind my own business?
Sincerely,
Anonymous
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Aunty Lisa Responds:
Dear Anonymous,
You find yourself in a difficult situation. It’s understandable that you feel conflicted about what to do. The decision to tell your neighbour’s husband about what you saw is a personal one and ultimately, it’s up to you to decide.
However, before you make any decisions, it’s important to consider the possible consequences of your actions. If you do tell your neighbour’s husband, it could potentially lead to the breakdown of their mɑrriɑge and possibly even legal action against you.
You might want to consider speaking to your neighbour’s wife first before speaking to her husbɑnd. It could be possible that there is a reasonable explanation for what you saw, and you don’t want to jump to conclusions without hearing both sides of the story.
Ultimately, the decision is yours to make, but it’s important to remember that there could be serious consequences to your actions. Take some time to think about what you want to do, and consider all the possible outcomes before making a final decision.
Good luck,
Aunty Lisa
