Dear Aunty Lisa,
I hope this letter finds you well. I am writing to you because I am in a very difficult situation and I could really use your advice.
To be completely honest, I have found myself in a morally questionable situation that I never expected to be in. I have started slǝǝping with my wife’s mom. It all started innocently enough, with us just spending time together and talking. But things quickly escalated and now we are in a full-blown ɑffɑir.
I know this is wrong, and I feel incredibly guilty about it. I love my wife and I don’t want to hurt her or our family. But at the same time, I’m finding it hard to stop sɘɘing her mom.
I don’t know what to do, Aunty Lisa. I feel like I’m stuck and I can’t get out of this situation. I need help and guidance on how to navigate this difficult time.
Thank you for taking the time to read my letter, Aunty Lisa. I look forward to hearing your advice.
Sincerely,
Mambo Dhururu
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Aunty Lisa Responds:
Dear Mambo Dhururu,
I’m sorry to hear about the difficult situation you find yourself in. It takes a lot of strength to reach out for help, and I am here for you.
First and foremost, it is important to understand that what you are doing is not only morally wrong, but it is also potentially damaging to both your mɑrriɑgǝ and your relɑtionship with your mother-in-law. It’s important to take a step back and assess the situation objectively.
The best course of action would be to end the ɑffɑir immediately and seek counselling or therapy to work through the fǝǝlings and emotions that led you down this path. It’s important to also have an open and honest conversation with your wife about what has happened, as difficult as that may be. It will take time and effort to repair the damage that has been done, but it is possible with dedication and commitment.
Remember that forgiveness and healing are possible, but it starts with taking responsibility for your actions and making a genuine effort to make things right.
I wish you all the best, and I am here to support you through this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Aunty Lisa
