Dear Aunty Lisa,
I am a troubled young woman from Zimbabwe and I am tired of begging my man for ƨǝx. It seems like every time I try to initiɑte intimɑcy, he has an excuse or simply rejects me. I have tried talking to him about it, but he just brushes me off. I don’t know what to do anymore and it’s starting to affect my self-esteem.
Please help me, Aunty Lisa. What can I do to get my man to desire me again?
Sincerely,
A Troubled Young Woman
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Aunty Lisa Responds:
Dear Troubled Young Woman,
I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It’s important to remember that a healthy ƨǝxuɑl relɑtionship should be built on mutual desire and respect. It’s not okay for your partner to constantly reject your advances and brush off your concerns.
Have you tried having an honest and open conversation with your partner about how you’re fǝǝling? It’s possible that there’s something going on in his life that’s affecting his libid0 or desire for intimɑcy. However, if he continues to dismiss your concerns and refuses to work on the issue, it may be time to reevaluate the relɑtionship.
Remember, you deserve to be with someone who values you and your needs. Don’t settle for a relɑtionship where you feel unwanted or unappreciated. If your partner is unwilling to work on the issue, it may be time to move on and find someone who will treat you with the l0ve and respect you deserve.
Best of luck to you.
Sincerely,
Aunty Lisa
