Dear Aunty Lisa
Throughout my last break-up, one of my best friends was my rock. She listened to me cry and I confided my feelings in her.
Recently, I went away for the weekend and she went out to Kariba with some mates and says she got “pretty drunk”. While out, she bumped into my ex and they all got talking, which I don’t have an issue with at all. What I do have an issue with is that my friend – someone who I have shared my heartbreak with – then kissǝd and went home and had ƨǝx with my ex.
She didn’t tell me right away and only confessed when a mutual friend text me to say she saw them leaving a club hand in hand and kiss!ng.
I’m so distraught. I only broke up with my ex six months ago so it’s still very raw. I never imagined one of my best friends would betray me in this way. How do I move on from this? I don’t want to lose our friendship but I can’t trust her.