Dear Aunty Lisa
My boyfriǝnd — who I l0ve to bits — is addicted to the risk of ƨǝx in public places.
He constantly dares me and we have done it in the office with his door unlocked, in the mall’s parking lot and our favourite place is in the movies.
I think I am becoming excited about the whole rush we experience even though I started out being the one to point out the risks.
Do we need help perhaps?
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Aunty Lisa replies:
I understand the rush and thrill of excitement at the thought of being caught.
I fear the danger and humiliation that comes with it as you could be arrested for public indecency if caught.
However, I am mainly worried when you say your b0yfriend is addicted to this behaviour because if he wants to engage in ƨǝx only in such a risky way, then there might be no real connection and int!macy in your relati0nship.
The relati0nship might just be about fun and impulsiveness that you might misinterpret as spontaneity.
If it is a once-in-a-while thing, it is understandable that you want to keep the relati0nship exciting.
If this is how you engage ƨǝxuɑlly most of the time, then it’s a cause for concern.
