South Africa woke to unexpected news this week: Springbok captain Siya Kolisi and his wife, Rachel, have announced their separation.
The couple, who have been lauded as a model couple, shared the news via a joint statement on their respective Instagram pages, a move that surprised many given their consistently positive public image.
The statement, released on Tuesday evening, was brief but heartfelt, emphasising mutual respect and a commitment to co-parenting their two children.
“After much reflection and open conversation, we have mutually decided to end our marriage. This decision comes from a place of love, respect, and understanding that this is the best path forward for both of us,” the statement read.
It continued, “While our relationship as a couple is changing, we remain great friends and committed partners in raising our children with the same love and care they’ve always known. We will also continue working together on the foundation that means so much to us.”
The Kolisi Foundation, a charity close to the couple’s hearts, will continue to be a joint venture, demonstrating a commitment to their shared philanthropic work despite the end of their marriage. The couple’s dedication to the foundation, which supports various community initiatives, is a testament to their shared values and commitment to making a difference in South Africa.
The statement also expressed gratitude for the public’s support and requested privacy during this transition.
“We are grateful for the love, understanding, and support you’ve always shown us, and we kindly ask your respect as we navigate this transition,” they concluded.
The comments section on both Instagram posts was disabled, likely to minimise speculation and maintain a degree of privacy during this difficult period.
Siya and Rachel’s relationship began in 2012 at a dinner party following a rugby match at Newlands stadium. Their connection blossomed quickly, leading to their marriage in 2016 in a glamorous ceremony at Molenvliet Wine Estate near Stellenbosch.
The wedding was attended by several prominent figures, including fellow rugby star Tendai “Beast” Mtawarira and his wife. Their marriage was a symbol of love and success, often featured in media portrayals of a strong and supportive family unit.
The couple’s journey together has included significant highs and lows. They expanded their family with two children and also took on the responsibility of raising Siya’s younger siblings after the passing of his mother. This act of familial devotion further cemented their image as a strong and caring family.
Their move to Paris earlier this year, following Siya’s signing with Racing 92, marked a significant chapter in their lives. However, their time in France was short-lived, with Siya returning to South Africa and the Sharks in September. He cited a desire to play in a fourth Rugby World Cup in 2027 as a major factor in his decision to return home.
The timing of the announcement is somewhat surprising, given recent public appearances. Just weeks ago, the family shared smiling photos from a trip to Mbombela, portraying a picture of happiness and unity.
Even earlier this month, they were both featured in a video posted by the Kolisi Foundation, singing alongside children from the Siphekele iSizwe Empowerment Hub. This seemingly happy family dynamic makes the announcement all the more unexpected.
Siya’s public profile has been exceptionally high in recent years, culminating in the release of his documentary, Rise: The Siya Kolisi Story, which chronicled his journey from humble beginnings to becoming Springbok captain.
Rachel has been a constant presence by his side throughout his career, offering unwavering support and acting as a strong partner both publicly and privately.
