JOHANNESBURG – In a candid birthday reflection, Thobeka Majozi, Cassper Nyovest’s baby mama, has opened up about the incredibly challenging past few years, revealing her son Khotso’s cancer diagnosis at just eight months old and Nyovest’s infidelity during that tumultuous time.
Majozi’s heartfelt Instagram post paints a picture of resilience, heartbreak, and the unwavering strength of family amidst unimaginable adversity.
“At eight months, my son was diagnosed with cancer. An entire different world,” Majozi shared, offering a glimpse into the devastating reality she faced. She described the immense struggle of balancing her personal world with the demands of her son’s illness, striving to maintain a sense of normalcy while navigating the complexities of cancer treatment.
“I always stood on protection and privacy. Trying to maintain ‘the world’ and my world was a marathon on its own.”
Majozi revealed the extent of her son’s treatment, spending two years living in an oncology hospital as Khotso underwent chemotherapy and life-threatening surgeries.
“I lived in an oncology hospital for two years with my son as he underwent chemotherapy and life-threatening surgeries,” she wrote while highlighting the constant presence of fear and uncertainty that undoubtedly marked this period.
While grappling with the immense emotional and physical toll of her son’s illness, Majozi was dealt another blow – Nyovest’s infidelity. She revealed that the woman involved, Pulane Mojaki (now Nyovest’s wife), was aware of Khotso’s condition, adding another layer of pain to the betrayal.
“After finding out, he ended it with her and tried to make amends with me. I could not trust someone who can hurt me at my lowest or allow another woman to disrespect his woman,” Majozi explained.
She emphasised that the timing of the infidelity, amidst her son’s cancer battle, made it particularly difficult to bear.
“Considering everything we had been through; it was more of the timing than the infidelity. He later married her.”
Despite the heartbreak and betrayal, Majozi remained steadfast in her commitment to her son. She put her own emotions aside to focus on Khotso’s health, juggling hospital discharges with a new project she had embarked on.
“In between home discharges and a new project, I started. I had to stop my life, put aside my own emotions and show up for my baby. At the time, his health was more important than my heart,” she shared and demonstrated the incredible strength and unwavering love of a mother.
Majozi credits faith and the support of both families as the pillars that helped them through this challenging period.
“One thing we will do, is enjoy the world. Faith and family were the remedy to everything. Both families understood the mandate, living and loving is what we stand on.”
Her words offer a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of support systems during times of crisis.
“The devil had me so deep, everything that I did was validated and I could negotiate why I was doing it. I was addicted to sex, sexual immorality and I had such a big ego,” Nyovest confessed.
He acknowledged the profound impact his addiction had on his life and relationships, particularly the hurt he caused Majozi.
“God showed me that I had destroyed my life with sex. Sex was my master. It used to tell me what to do, and where to go. My days were short because sex was controlling me. I used to live a life so hectic and I thought it was fine because it was in secret. I used to wake up at 3am and go to people’s homes. This created a serious mess, I hurt my baby mama so much. And I have been single for two years, by the way. I carried on living this life.”
Majozi’s revelation provides a poignant backdrop to Nyovest’s earlier confession, offering a deeper understanding of the pain and betrayal she endured. Her story is one of remarkable strength, resilience, and unwavering devotion to her son.
It highlights the challenges faced by many families battling childhood cancer and the complexities of navigating relationships amidst such adversity. While Majozi’s post focuses on the difficult journey, it also carries a message of hope and the enduring power of love and family.
