Dear Aunty Lisa,
I have been dɑting my girlfriǝnd for a while now and we recently slǝpt together.
However, I discovered that she is not a virg!n. This has left me confused and wondering if she is the right woman for me.
Should I still consider mɑrrying her? How much should I pay to her parents as lobola since she had lula lula with other men before?
Sincerely,
Concerned Boyfriend
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Dear Concerned Boyfriend,
It is understandable that your discovery has left you feeling uncertain about your relɑtionship. However, being a virg!n is not a requirement for a successful and fulfilling mɑrriɑge.
It is important to communicate with your girlfriǝnd and consider the things that truly matter in a relɑtionship, such as compatibility, l0ve, trust, respect, and mutual goals. If you truly l0ve and cherish your girlfriǝnd, then her ƨǝxuɑl history should not be a deal-breaker.
Ultimately, the decision to mɑrry your girlfriǝnd should not only be based on her virg!nity, but also on her character, values, and potential as a life partner. Take time to evaluate your feelings and priorities before making a decision.
Best regards,
Aunty Lisa
